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Celebrate Valentine’s Day

A young colleague who is divorcing after a romance and marriage that lasted from high school until her mid-twenties made a statement so profound that I am not sure she realizes how profound it is. She said to me, “He only had one note and, after all of these years, I got tired of listening to it.”

Just as an emotional range is important in a marriage, an emotional range in dealing with coworkers and reporting staff is critical. I have learned the most significant factor in people wanting to team with coworkers and follow their manager. It is the ability of the manager, as an example, to demonstrate that he or she values the employees who report to him or her. Respect for and valuing people trumps just about everything else.

So, conflict over ideas is okay. Conflict that devalues people is not. Making thoughtful mistakes should be okay and used as learning experiences in a good company. Whether the team member or reporting staff member is perfect is not the question; value is not measured by perfection. Value is fundamentally deserved by people in a work place. It is the emotional perception that is the most important. If people feel respected and valued, just about everything good follows at work.

So, happy Valentine’s Day. Use it as an opportunity to value and respect your family, friends, and coworkers and allow your value for people to overflow into the weeks and years to come.

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Celebrate Valentine’s Day originally appeared on About.com Human Resources on Sunday, February 14th, 2010 at 12:26:10.

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